What About? (Week 7)
But What About Suffering? · Resources
1 Peter 4:12-19
Summary
Kent Keller takes on the hardest question in the But What About? series: if God is all good, all loving and all powerful, why is there so much suffering? Peter's answer in 1 Peter 4 is three warnings - don't be surprised by suffering, don't be unprepared for judgment, and don't lose sight of the outcome.
Sermon Outline
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The Hardest Question We Ask ▶ 0:00
Kent names the question head on - if God is all good, all loving and all powerful, why is there so much sin, suffering and evil? - and reads 1 Peter 4:12-19.
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Everybody Is Somewhere on the Scale ▶ 3:16
Joni's observation: you can minister to people suffering at your level or below, but not above it. We are all broken, all hurting, all suffering at some level.
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Nobody Says "Why Me?" After the Lottery ▶ 4:08
Peter says don't be surprised by the fiery trial. We never ask why me when something good happens - and God's most faithful servants have often suffered the most.
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The Hebrews 11 Roll Call ▶ 6:01
Joseph in Pharaoh's dungeon, Daniel with the lions, the three men in the furnace, John the Baptist, Stephen under the rocks - and Jesus on the way to the cross. Every one of them could have asked why me.
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Job Asked for Thirty-Five Chapters ▶ 7:44
God never told Job why. The longest unbroken speech of God in the Bible comes down to "I'm God and you're not" - and Job said that was enough.
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Not "Why Me?" but "Why Me, Lord?" ▶ 9:03
The question that helps is not why this happened but what God's purpose in it is. He may never tell you - and knowing there is a purpose is enough to keep you sane.
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God Became One of Us ▶ 10:50
What makes the Christian gospel unique is that God entered our suffering himself. The only man-made things in heaven will be the scars in Jesus' hands, feet, side and forehead.
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Don't Be Unprepared for Judgment ▶ 12:47
After hundreds of funerals, and a father who died suddenly at 55, Kent says life is fragile and time is precious. One day we all run out of days.
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Either He Sent It, or It's All Random ▶ 18:29
If you believe in a sovereign God, what you are going through was either allowed or sent. The alternative is an unordained universe with no meaning at all - make your choice.
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Big Enough to Blame, Big Enough to Trust ▶ 21:18
Alvin Plantinga's answer: if God is powerful enough that we hold him accountable for what goes wrong, we must also allow that he is wise enough to have reasons we cannot see.
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Suffering, Then Judgment, Then Glory ▶ 22:35
The pattern of the gospel, in order. Jesus suffered, so our suffering has meaning; he submitted to the judgment of men so we could stand before God.
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Four Anchors in Times of Trial ▶ 24:26
Andrew Murray's practical word to hold onto: I am here by God's appointment, in his keeping, under his training, for his time.
Key Points
- Peter tells us not to be surprised by the fiery trial. Christians get no pass, and church history shows God's most faithful servants are often the ones who suffer most.
- Nobody cries "why me?" when they win the lottery. The question worth asking is not why me but why me, Lord - what is your purpose in this pain?
- God never answered Job's why. The longest unbroken speech of God in the Bible amounts to "I'm God and you're not," and Job accepted it.
- The Christian gospel is unique in this: God has entered our suffering himself in Christ, and has suffered more than any of us ever will.
- Peter's second warning is judgment. When God asks for an account, the only answer that will hold is that you were bought with the blood of Jesus Christ - all the rest is details.
- If God is big enough that we blame him when things go wrong, we have to allow that he is big enough to have good reasons we cannot understand from where we stand.
- The pattern runs in one direction: suffering, then judgment, then glory.
Quotable Moments
“There is a purpose in our pains. Whether we know what it is or not, knowing that there is a purpose is what will keep you sane in the middle of the night.” ▶ 7:17
“We don't have a God who doesn't understand. We don't have a God who sits back and says, well, that's really tough for you down there.” ▶ 11:13
“God wounds, but he wounds only to heal. God breaks, but he breaks only to mend. He puts to death, but he puts to death only to resurrect.” ▶ 11:54
“Jesus suffered, so our suffering has meaning. If Jesus did it, it cannot be meaningless.” ▶ 22:54
“I am here by God's appointment, in his keeping, under his training, for his time.” ▶ 25:15
Scripture
1 Peter 4:12-19 (ESV)
Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. But let none of you suffer as a murderer or a thief or an evildoer or as a meddler. Yet if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed, but let him glorify God in that name. For it is time for judgment to begin at the household of God; and if it begins with us, what will be the outcome for those who do not obey the gospel of God? And "If the righteous is scarcely saved, what will become of the ungodly and the sinner?" Therefore let those who suffer according to God's will entrust their souls to a faithful Creator while doing good.
Romans 8:28 (ESV)
And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.
Isaiah 41:10 (ESV)
Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Take It With You
- You may never learn why. Knowing that there is a purpose is what will hold you together in the middle of the night.
- Pray for the thing to be taken away - and then, like Jesus in the garden, add: but if not, your will be done.
- Say it over the hard place you are in right now: I am here by God's appointment, in his keeping, under his training, for his time.
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