Monday
2025-09-22
The Chains No One Else Can See
"They came to the other side of the sea, to the country of the Gerasenes. And when Jesus had stepped out of the boat, immediately there met him out of the tombs a man with an unclean spirit. He lived among the tombs. And no one could bind him anymore, not even with a chain, for he had often been bound with shackles and chains, but he wrenched the chains apart, and he broke the shackles in pieces. No one had the strength to subdue him. Night and day among the tombs and on the mountains he was always crying out and cutting himself with stones."
— Mark 5:1-5
Some of us are in chains nobody can see.
For some it is what we have said about ourselves. You made a mistake, and somewhere along the way the mistake became your name. That is who I am. That is what I did. You cannot change the past, so you settle for it.
For others it is what somebody else said. You're beautiful. You're ugly. You're smart. You're not. You're in. You're out. You're going somewhere. You're not. And if we are honest, at some point we started believing it.
The man in these verses had both. The whole town said he was out of his mind, and they were right. He also said things about himself, and the text shows you what those things had done: night and day among the tombs, crying out, cutting himself with stones.
Read verse 4 slowly, because it is the saddest line in the passage. They had bound him often, and he had torn the chains apart, and no one had the strength to subdue him. People had been trying. The town's whole strategy was restraint — hold him down, keep him away from us, manage the damage. It never once occurred to anyone that he could be free.
Restraint is what we still do with the chains we cannot see. We manage them. We build a schedule around them. We call it a personality.
So name yours today, plainly, the way you would say it to one trusted person. What is the chain? And whose voice has been doing the naming?
Pray
Father, some of what I believe about myself was said by someone who had no right to name me. Break what is holding me, and let me hear what you call me instead. Amen.
Reflect
What is your chain — and whose voice has been doing the naming?