Monday
2026-08-10
The Religion of Jay
"These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion and asceticism and severity to the body, but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh."
— Colossians 2:23
He came to faith as an adult, and one of the first things he read was Peter quoting Leviticus: *be holy, for I am holy.*
His reaction was honest. *Whoa. Hold on a second. Be holy? That's a thing?* He knew he was many things. Holy was not one of them.
So he did what most of us do. He built a list. Go to church. Feed the poor. Stop the Friday nights that ran till four in the morning. It was a reasonable list. It was even a good list.
It failed. Not because he was lazy, but because he kept doing the very things he had already decided he would not do. He called it *the religion of Jay* — and he could not keep up with the religion of Jay.
You have a list too. It may not look religious. Be more patient. Be less on your phone. Be the kind of person who has it together by now. You wrote it yourself, which is exactly the problem — Paul's word for it is *self-made religion*.
Notice what Paul does not say. He does not say the list is too strict, or too lenient, or that you need a better one. He says it has *no value* in doing the one thing you built it to do.
Before you can receive the answer, you have to stop defending the list.
Pray
Father, I have been managing myself instead of coming to you. I am tired of a list I cannot keep. Show me where I have been trusting my own effort, and loosen my grip on it. Amen.
Reflect
What is on your own list right now — the one you wrote yourself and keep failing?